Evolving is a Mindset
If there was a list that someone could just hand to me so I can make the right decisions in life and be successful then i’m still waiting. Life would be so easy it would be like things would be given to me on a silver platter. Unfortunately, that’s just not realistic, at least it’s not in my life. Therefore, I’ve had to learn things the hard way and this has its pros and cons. For one, I can say that I have a lot of experience and to say the least experience is what helps us to evolve.
Let’s be positive we all want control over the decisions that we make. It’s kind of nice being able to decide for ourselves. Now if we could just make choices without our emotions getting in the way and maybe we would be a get more done. Imagine all the things we could be if we weren’t controlled by our insecurities. If we were fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire. We would be unstoppable. Think about what stops you now?
What would you do if you weren’t afraid? Is what you’re doing, supporting the life you are trying to create? Can you visualize your highest self? It’s “Mind Over Matter”. My dad always told me if you don’t mind it doesn’t matter. Easier said than done but that just goes to show you that are mind must be stronger than our heart. It is true when they say that you have to talk to yourself like you love yourself and that all starts in the mind. When we do so we have a glimpse of hope that in return gives us courage.
Courage does not depend on our favorable circumstances it depends on our degree of confidence. Remember we are never strong enough that we don’t need help for it takes courage to let go of the familiar and embrace the new.
You are slowly growing but you are still growing and that means everything. Growth in all aspects is essential to ones own mental health. Although we may not like it, maturing is realizing and coming to an understanding that you have some toxic traits too. It’s not always the other person. Be brave to be vulnerable. It’s human to accept our flaws. Overcome the that hurdle of a thought to progress into maturity allowing yourself to acquire a trait of humility. Recognizing that we all fail at times makes us prone to less judgements and assumptions. This helps for building trust in ourselves, thus believing in yourself to surmount to amazing little things. When you look back at all those little things, the puzzle becomes the grand amazing life.
“Knowing is only half the battle”
Be confident enough to accept and cherish your strengths and to adjust where we are weak. What you believe about yourself matters. On a deep subconscious level it is what you portray through your actions, words and habits. It’s what you attract and manifest more of. Your mindset is the power over your life. It’s the energy you carry, the currency you hold. Spend it wisely and invest it.
Comparing yourself to others deteriorates the best version of a person you can be. A crime against yourself. Your only competition should be yourself. It’s your ego, lack of knowledge, procrastination, consumption of unhealthy food, slacking off. Compete against such things as these. Be the energy you want to attract.
Choose to change your mindset, educate yourself, eat healthy, focus on your goals, drink more water, dance more. Enjoy the process and the journey of becoming, of loving yourself. Don’t ignore your own potential. You cannot hate the experience that shaped you. Regret is too heavy to carry.
Rather allow it to redirect you and mold you to a beautiful soul. Open your heart to let the bad things out and the good things in. Imagine being life itself, wild and free, for you are wonderfully made, a perfectly human put together. There is no limit to how alive and radiant you can be. You are your only limit, as cliche as it sounds. It is s cliche for a reason.
Sometimes grieving with those who grieve wakes up a part of us that we would other wise take for granted and we come to appreciate life itself. We can grieve over the person we use to be, the things we have let go of, our heart that was once broken. However, once we grieve me must not look back unless it’s to remind you of how far you’ve come. To allow you to find love in life and in yourself. For how you love others is how you teach others to love you.
Everything will work out how and when it is suppose to, regardless of how and when you may want it. I’m sure there are ways to speed the process or the progress but times is not one of them. Let your faith ( if you don’t know what faith is look up Hebrews 11:1 ) in the journey be stronger than your doubts and fears. Good things always take time. Give yourself time and space to try new things and explore different paths.
Sometimes no matter how far you go you might not find yourself but maybe that’s just a redirection so that we can create who we are. You are more powerful than you think. You are a warrior, created to to live the life you’ve been given. Therefore, give yourself space to evolve, allow yourself to naturally evolve. You are in control of your own destiny.
We are all of the same human nature, make up. We may look different on the outside but we are all the same on the inside. We all experience lives battles, we may know how it feels like to gain, to have lost, to feel deeply saddened, or not know what to do with our lives and great joy. My wish for you is that you be determined to rise and become the best version of yourself by continuing to evolve because that is your power.
I hope that this post gives insight, motivation, and inspiration.
“Evolving involves eliminating”